All my love

Nine years ago today I married my best friend.

27 May, 2000, the newlyweds walk Hermosa Beach

Happy anniversary, darling. Where but for you would I?

Fear of a blank planet

Jeanette Winterson, in her Times exploration of novelist Italo Calvino, explains why reading fiction isn’t simply important to human growth, it’s paramount:

There is a fear now, voiced by neuroscientists such as Susan Greenfield and Norman Doidge, that by training the brain on the concrete—vocational education, the simple reward system of video games and mass entertainment, the simplification of language towards information and away from metaphor—that we are breeding dull, mechanical people who cannot manage abstract or conceptual thought and who are baffled by imagination.

I can never thank my parents enough for instilling in me the desperate love of reading.

“First Execution”

A wonderful line from Domenico Starnone’s First Execution:

A first draft is the closest thing there is to life itself as it rains chaotically down upon our heads.

“Goodbye, Columbus”

Philip Roth’s first book, Goodbye, Columbus, was published 50 years ago this week. I first read it in tenth grade English class at New Canaan High School. Twenty-eight years later the title story remains a favourite, and the doomed love of Neil and Brenda still tugs at my heart:

What was it inside me that had turned pursuit and clutching into love, and then turned it inside out again? What was it that had turned winning into losing, and losing—who knows—into winning? I was sure I had loved Brenda, though standing there, I knew I couldn’t any longer. And I knew it would be a long while before I made love to anyone the way I had made love to her. With anyone else, could I summon up such a passion? Whatever spawned my love for her, had that spawned such lust too? If she had only been slightly not Brenda . . . but then would I have loved her? I looked hard at the image of me, at that darkening of the glass, and then my gaze pushed through it, over the cool floor, to a broken wall of books, imperfectly shelved.

Sometimes we need not only thank the author who wrote something that remains so indelibly with us but also those who introduced us to such works. Thanks, Dr Benjamin. Yours was the first class that taught me how to read and therefore how to write.